After you have done some of the releasing that you need to, it’s time to cleanse your home. Clearing your space isn’t just about tidying up and tossing out garbage. Conducting an energetic clearing of your home removes blockages and negative energy that may have built up in your home or office over time.
When you enter your home from a long day of work or school, you may be exhausted or stressed. Those energies that you bring in keep piling up in the place that is meant to be your sanctuary. Compound that with arguments at home with your spouse or children, and more of that negative energy builds up. If you have a tendency to attract toxic people in your life, that energy will also pour into your home. Eventually all of that “sludge” will clog up the air and you will feel tense and unrelaxed. If you are an empath like myself, you’ll feel that energy begin to put a damper on your mood and you will feel the inclination to maybe open a window to let some fresh air in. This is a great temporary fix. And when you live in Calgary, where the temperature can fluctuate between freezing cold and boiling hot from day to day, it’s not always practical to leave your windows open constantly.
One of the best methods to clear your space is to use something called “smudging”. Typically, you can pick up a smudge stick at a metaphysical shop or at a business that sells incense. Shopping online will open up even more options for buying in bulk or getting herbal blends within the smudge for certain scents that may appeal to you. Sage is typically the main ingredient, but some places will sell individual herbs to create your own smudge stick at home. Maybe you’ll want to add cedar or lavender to the mix.
A lot of practitioners will also buy an abalone shell to carry or snuff out the smudge. Another tool to help you fan the smoke around you is a decorative feather. This could be something found in nature that you come across on a walk, or you can pick up something special with colourful beads, leatherwork, or extra embellishments that appeal to you. The fan is a symbolic representation of spirit’s hand in guiding the smoke as it cleanses your space. Tribal cultures always honour the ancestors (or spirit) before and after a clearing ceremony. Consider doing this yourself as I find asking for help makes the ritual much more effective. Thank your spiritual guides after the work is complete as gratitude will invite more positivity into the home.
Before you start the ritual, ground yourself and get into a meditative space. Open your heart and mind, and set your intention to clear your home or whatever space you intend to detoxify. Ask spirit to help you remove any blockages to abundance and prosperity that may have built up over time. Invite spirit to welcome new opportunities for health, financial stability, or attracting better relationships. Breathe in deeply and get ready to commence.
Upon lighting the smudge, it will give off a fragrant white smoke. I prefer to use a BBQ lighter because my smudge has a tendency to go out after a few minutes and I need to re-light it a few times before I’m done clearing. It can take a bit of work for older smudge to light properly so a match is not the best for this task. Candles are a great option for lighting smudge.
Close your eyes and visualize that this smoke will detoxify your space as it reaches the far corners of your home. Use your feather to fan the smoke outward from you. As you walk around your home carrying the smudge, be sure to spend extra time in a place that you think has stagnant energy. This could be a home office, living room or kitchen where you spend a lot of time. The bedroom is a great place to focus if you want to improve your sleep and clear the air of the lingering thoughts that fill your head and prevent restful sleep.
Bring your attention to exterior doorways and windows. Run the smudge smoke along the perimeter of the windows and entryways of your home and ask that no negative energy enter. Imagine that you’re creating a shield around your windows and exit doors that will stop toxic energy from coming in. Ask that only positive and loving energy be invited. Setting your intention for what is allowed in and out makes the work much more powerful.
When you are done walking through all the rooms in your home and you’ve set up your shields around the windows and doors, go back to the first place you started and thank the ancestors, spirit, or angels (whoever you invited to assist you in the first place) and snuff out your smudge into the abalone shell. Maybe it’ll go out on its own naturally. Some people prefer to let nature do its work, but for safety reasons I prefer to snuff mine out in case there is a lit ember that I’m unaware of.
After you have finished, breathe in deeply and revel in the lightness of your home.
How frequently should you clear your home? I think that depends on your circumstances. If you have a home-based business or you invite a lot of guests over, they can carry a lot of energy with them that you may not know is positive or negative. Maybe in that situation you may clear your home every day or every week. Or if you don’t have a lot of visitors, you might clear it every few weeks or months. It really depends on your mood and what is practical for you. There is no right or wrong way to do this. Enjoy the work and give it a shot!
Get in touch with me if you are hesitant to try this on your own and would like a professional space clearing done.